A decade in the past, an individual who walked right into a restaurant in Seoul and requested for “han myung-I” —a desk for one — might be declined service.
That is as a result of eating places in South Korea choose teams of two or extra, owing to a posh mixture of native social dynamics, revenue margins and easy logistics — a tableside grill must be cleaned whether or not it serves one patron or 4, in any case.
Solo rejections generally occurred at household eating places and barbecue shops, two quintessential spots to pattern a few of the nation’s finest delicacies. Solo diners may circumvent it in two methods: by putting an order for 2 or agreeing to a minimal spend.
Nonetheless, with the expansion of one-person households in South Korea, extra individuals are selecting to dine, drink and journey alone — embracing the “honjok” way of life development that has visibly taken root within the nation.
Consuming out
Hongojib is in contrast to most barbecue locations in Seoul.
Situated within the full of life neighborhood of Yeonnam-dong, the restaurant — and its predecessors, similar to Sinssi Specific and Hongo — have swapped conventional communal eating for the rising development of honbap, or consuming alone.
Diners eat at counters somewhat than spherical tables. And dishes aren’t served household model — every diner is given private settings for condiments and cutlery together with their very own grill.
Sinsii Specific’ solo counter, the place the creator ate, with a small grill and privateness divider.
Supply: Morgan Awyong
Orders are positioned and paid for with tablets. And meals — alongside a cluster of basic banchan, or facet dishes — is served inside minutes.
Marianne Lee, a Korean schooling advisor, mentioned this model of consuming is a change from the times when “everybody has to eat in groups, everybody has to drink collectively, everybody has to go for a similar menu.”
“If you happen to needed to have a Chinese language meal, but when your supervisor says let’s go for Japanese noodles, you’d haven’t any alternative however to go,” she mentioned. “However these days, individuals respect having their very own time.”
With a following of greater than 40,000 on TikTok, Lee — who mentioned she’s spent equal elements of her life in the UK and South Korea — is well-liked for her movies about Korean tradition, from bus etiquette to the very best time to go to the nation.
In her movies, she recommends solo vacationers attempt eating places similar to Labap for nice eating, or Gimbap Cheongu and Pomato for his or her broad number of Korean meals.
The latter two “are open 24 hours and promote tteokbokki, rice dishes, soup and different scorching cooked meals,” she mentioned, referring to Korean spicy rice truffles.
South Korean vacationer info helpers information vacationers in Seoul’s well-liked Myeongdong buying district.
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Lee suggests visiting the favored vacationer spots first, similar to Namsan, Myeong Dong, Insadong and Itaewon, the place individuals typically converse some English. Multilingual vacationer guides wearing crimson coats and hats are there to assist with vacationers’ questions too, she mentioned.
“It additionally helps once you add in a couple of Korean phrases, like hoksi (perhaps) earlier than you ask your query in English,” she provides. Koreans hear higher than they converse, so she feels that it helps to “soften the strategy and we actually respect it.”
The place to remain
South Korea is well-liked with guests from Asia, particularly China and Japan, however guests from Western international locations, particularly the USA, are on the rise. American vacationers have been the fourth-largest supply market till 2019, however catapulted to the highest demographic in 2022, in accordance with Tourgo, a analysis initiative of the Korea Tradition and Tourism Analysis Institute.
Earlier this yr, South Korea introduced a brand new visa for digital nomads is within the pipeline. The visa, which might permit foreigners to remain in Korea whereas working remotely for an employer abroad, is slated to start out later this yr, in accordance with The Korea Herald.
Fortunately, it is now far simpler to discover a place to remain than it was prior to now.
New co-living corporations, like Episode and Mangrove, have been created in response to the rise of single-person households searching for reasonably priced locations to stay in Seoul. Some residential buildings permit short-term lodging, which solo vacationers can e-book.
The creator, Morgan Awyong, within the communal kitchen of Mangrove Dongdaemun.
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I stayed at Mangrove Dongdaemun for a month in a clear and compact room that got here with a workstation, personal rest room and a view of Mount Namsan.
Not like lodges, there are communal kitchens and coworking areas, plus a gymnasium, yoga rooms, library and even free laundry self-service. An app hyperlinks residents with chat boards and actions like “New Joiner Nights.”
The idea is well-liked, mentioned Mangrove employees member Kim Serin, who added that the constructing is full a lot of the yr. She mentioned short-stay requests are growing, and that the corporate is working to fulfill this want with new initiatives coming in two different well-liked locations, Busan and Jeju.
Celib Soonra is one other residence designed for solo residents and vacationers. Stays underneath three months may be booked by way of Airbnb, which is how I booked my keep.
Morgan Awyong within the communal tea room at Celib Soonra.
Supply: Morgan Awyong
My room was much less cookie-cutter and got here with native touches like a conventional tea room, and the rooftop has panoramic views of Changdeokgung palace and Jongmyo Shrine.
Its neighborhood, Gwonnong-dong, is extra intimate too, and the hip cafe-filled Hanok village of Ikseon-dong is however a 10-minute stroll away.
Enterprise lodges too
Enterprise lodges, like these from the hospitality model Accor, are additionally working to create hybrid residing areas the place vacationers and locals can “stay, work and play,” in accordance with its web site.
An ondol room at Ibis Gangnam.
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Accor’s Ibis model provides an instance of this. On the Ibis Kinds Ambassador Seoul Gangnam, I may see how small modifications could make an enormous distinction, such because the communal backyard on the resort’s fifteenth ground, the place I labored on days I had tight deadlines.
I additionally slept in an ondol room on the resort, which had heated flooring and conventional bedding, one thing that’s normally discovered solely in conventional homes and hanoks that caters to teams. Close to Gangnam’s Coex Mall, it was additionally a steal at lower than $55 an evening.